Happiness

Happiness
Della and me

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Republic, MO, United States
Who are the Burks? Well there is my wonderful Husband Aaron he's 25 and a super amazing man. I'm 25 also and I'm not as amazing as Aaron but I am totally in love and trying to be the best wife and momma. I'm also a very happy lady because I get to be a stay at home parent and work my Arbonne Business that I love. And last but not least is our joy, Della she's 2.5 yrs old and so perfect.

Della Burks

Della Burks
The most precious girl ever and her Momma.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Departure

When your heart is breaking and your soul is weak, your mind is clouded with doubt and defeat, there is a inner power that brings you relief, it also brought you there and keeps you..... It's love.

So because of this great emotion leaving the one you love is hard! Aaron and I where talking on our last trip to drop him off at work on Friday before I left. We started to think about how people deal with departures from their loved ones...it became a deep thought. Some people don't show their emotions. We think they feel love just as strong as anyone but just don't express it the same. Others shed tears and heart felt words... ( Aaron and I:) Departing for us is a wounding pain but somehow we always find a positive outlook to carry us through the departure. The Lord is a comfort to our hearts and we focus on all his blessings in our lives. To shed a tear for a loved one is not a disturbing thing...it's good for the soul and if a partner sheds a tear of emotion and love it indeed shows the other how much love they are being shown! Aaron is a wonderful sentiment of love and emotion he always shows me just how much he loves me...and he always comforts my heart it trying times. We must have a inner sensor that knows when the other person is weak it makes us strong and visa versa. We have seen this so often! It's a relationship blessing . Another way God put his hand on our lives.
So in our thought we decided that everyone deals differently but more importantly we learned our way. And God has a lesson in distance.

One Of Our Songs!


Saying I love you is not the words I want to hear from you.Its not that I want you, Not to say, but if you only knew.How easy it would be to show me how you feel.More than words is all you have to do to make it real.Then you wouldnt have to say that you love me'Cos I'd already know,What would you do if my heart was torn in two? More than words to show you feel,That your love for me is real...What would you say if I took those words away?Then you couldnt make things new,Just by saying I love you! More than words,Now I've tried to talk to you and make you understand...All you have to do is close your eyes,And just reach out your hands and touch me. Hold me close dont ever let me go! More than words is all I ever needed you to show,Then you wouldnt have to say that you love me ' Cos I'd already know.What would you do if my heart was torn in two? More than words to show you feel,That your love for me is real! What would you say if I took those words away? Then you couldnt make things new...Just by saying I love you, More than words!!!!!!!

To Aaron

I love you friend I can't explain
I'd give the world to say your name.
A friendship true is hard to grasp.
So please my friend don't ever ask
What word i'd use to define
A friendship, just like yours and mine.
With all my love ~ your Fiancee Jenna

Monday, March 2, 2009

Working With Work

Hello Readers,


Well the title should explain, but I will add. to it. The work -field. In a relationship work so many times will come between two people. The stress and disappointment, most generally faced everyday at the job. How to handle this? Well I'm not an expert...but I can say I know " Let it go". This has become many of Aaron and mine conversations since we have been together and while he has been working at CHASE. I love that he has a good job. But if we don't learn to let the stress die at the door of the company we will build a hardship between our own hearts. No one can avoid stress on a job. But how you deal with it is up to you. Another step in "becoming one" you become a part of your partners hardships. Visa Verse with us...we both endure each others work issues. And that's how it should be. I learned sometimes my problems are not the most important(even though they seem to be at that very moment) so looking through an others eyes and not only your own is yet another grave part of "Becoming One".

Becoming One

Hello Everyone,

This blog is going to be about the updates and events of two people becoming one. Aaron and I before we met lived both very seperate lives, without much interest in relationship so indepth as ours. Happly engaged now we are learning that life changes so vast and fast! In ways you don't expect. But with God's grace you learn to be less selfish and more intune with the other person. We have wonderful relationship...only we see as heavenly i'm sure. However hope to keep you updated as are wedding date gets more close everyday.

Jenna